If your feelings weren’t all that deep and you’re someone who’s able to process and move on quickly, by all means, enjoy the friendship. If you know in your gut that you’ll never be anything more than friends with this guy, now you need to decide whether that’s something you can be okay with. It’s important that you accept the fact that you’ll never be boyfriend and girlfriend so that you can begin to let those feelings fade.ĭecide whether or not you can be “just friends” with the guy. He should see what he has in you immediately, and if he doesn’t, it’s not right. If it’s meant to be with a guy, you wouldn’t have to chase him or wear him down. It’s tempting to try and convince yourself that if you just stick around and keep showing him how funny/smart/hot/brilliant you are, he’ll eventually come around and see you the same way you do him, but don’t do it. Accept the fact that you’ll never be a romantic item.
